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All weddings are awesome — not just mine | Offbeat Bride
As I have mentioned before, I love Offbeat Bride! I think they are amazing and do a great job of offering Brides diverse and creative ideas, concepts and perspectives on Weddings and everything that goes into your Wedding. The Wedding industry can sometimes be embarrassment to be a participant in the process. There are many vendors, venues and Wedding DJs that lie, cheat and manipulate Brides and Grooms. They play on their insecurities and fears to buy buy buy. I realize it is corny, but I love Weddings. The whole process is fun and inspiring to me. Like the article below states; all Weddings are awesome. It does not matter how much you spend or don’t, they are great experiences and celebrate marriage. I am equally thrilled when a Bride tells me she hired another Wedding DJ thats is perfect for her. I am not worried about getting booked, many Brides and many Weddings. The fact that I am a small business that survives off of Weddings does not matter to me. I will get work. I want you to be happy and have a great Wedding that you, your friends and family will always remember. I am not the only excellent Wedding DJ and I am not the right Wedding DJ for every Bride and Groom. Let me know what you think about this piece on Brides and Weddings from Offbeat Bride.
All weddings are awesome — not just mine | Offbeat Bride
“I am confused.
I am confused by the attitude that surrounds weddings and costs and ideas and things. Maybe that’s what makes me offbeat — I have this habit of loving everyone and being insanely optimisic even when it’s probably not warranted. I give second chances. I love and trust until given reason not to. Every new person I meet, and can carry at least a five minute conversation, I say is my new best friend. I write a daily blog about something happy that happened to me that day.
My problem lies in all the intense bitchiness that lives in the wedding world. “My wedding is better than yours because of such-and-such” and all of the things that go into such a feeling.
I was reading a blog where a woman commented that she had a courtroom wedding and blames opulent weddings for the high divorce rate.
Then there are the haters on both sides of the world. My wedding (and marriage) are better than yours because I chose to have a BBQ instead of a five course sit down meal. [At Offbeat Bride, we call this “one-lowsmanship” -Eds] My wedding (and marriage) are better than yours because I paid for three party rooms and the ghost of Louis Armstrong to sing our first song.
Can we all just chill the fuck out and be nice to each other for like… five and a half seconds?
If I was rich, I can’t say that I wouldn’t spend $50,000 on a wedding. I’d like to say I wouldn’t, but ideas change when disposable income does. My beautiful made of honor will be in our less-than-$10,000 celebration and was recently the maid of honor at a $50,000 celebration. They did the whole spiel: Catholic mass ceremony in a church with friends, family, family friends, parent’s business friends, people they’ve never known, country club, five course sit-down meal, uplighting, etc., etc. And you know what?
That wedding? … Absolutely beautiful.
The couple has been together for nearly ten years, and they earned every second of that celebration. Just because they did things differently than me doesn’t make them any better or worse. It’s just different.
We’re all awesome, beautiful, wonderful brides planning celebrations. We’re not all that different — we’re just throwing different parties.
The wedding industrial complex that tells us we need to lose weight, invite people we hate, and buybuybuybuybuy is slightly evil, yes. But it’s not all evil, and the women who don’t read Offbeat Bride are brides too. We all are. We’re all awesome, beautiful, wonderful brides planning celebrations. There are bad apples in every bunch but mostly, we’re not all that different — we’re just throwing different parties.
So I guess my issue is that everyone on every spectrum needs to realize that we can all get along. I promise. We really can. I love your wedding. Whoever you are. I love it. Whether it had all the bells and whistles or was private vows at the top of a mountain. Whether it had a DJ or an iPod. Whether it cost $200 or $200,000. It’s one of most beautiful days in the history of ever. We don’t need to be subtracting from other people’s celebrations to help make ourselves feel better. We can appreciate everything even if it’s nothing we would ever do in a million years.
The girl with the big poofy dress, the fancy dinner, the expensive wine, the 14 bridesmaids? That’s not me. But you know what? Her wedding is going to kick just as much ass as mine will because that’s her celebration. If you can stand in that ceremony and say that the person across from you is the person that you’re supposed to be across from on your wedding day — then nothing else matters.”
via All weddings are awesome — not just mine | Offbeat Bride.
What do you think about appreciating all Brides and all Weddings?
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“Here Comes the Bride” alternatives for ALL kinds of processionals | Offbeat Bride
“Here Comes the Bride” alternatives for ALL kinds of processionals
I saw this post, “Here Comes the Bride” alternatives for ALL kinds of processionals, earlier today and wanted to share it with you. If you have not visited Offbeat Bride yet, I invite you to do so. They are by far my favorite Bridal or Wedding Site on the Internet. I encourage you to use them as a resource for unique and alternative Wedding ideas and forums. They are smart and lots of fun, while making sure you get all kinds of neat Wedding advice and recommendations!
Many of the songs they have listed for “Here Comes the Bride” alternatives for ALL kinds of processionals, I have had requested by my Brides as well, and they have been perfect for them. I think that is the key to finding the right Wedding Processional Songs, or any songs for that matter for your Wedding; they have to be the prefect songs for you.
“Here Comes the Bride” alternatives for ALL kinds of processionals | Offbeat Bride
“My fiancee and I are going to be walking into the ceremony together and then meeting in the middle, so the traditional “Here Comes the Bride” wouldn’t really fit us too well.
That being said, does anyone know of any alternatives to that song?”
-Shell
Here we go! We’ve already rounded up AWESOME first dance songs and non-sappy father/daughter dance songs, now it’s time to put our Offbeat Bride spin on the processional. Here are our favorite Here Comes the Bride alternatives, ranging from the classic, the modern, and the totally nerdy (of course).
Classical Alternatives
Satie’s “Gymnopédie No. 1”
Gustav Holst’s “Jupiter, The Bringer Of Jollity”
“Ode to Joy” from Beethoven’s Symphony 9
Vivaldi’s “Spring Allegro”
Handel’s Air From “Water Music”
Mussorgsky’s “Pictures At An Exhibition: Promenade”
Variations on a Theme of Traditional
Queen’s wedding march — I had to!
Canon In D Remix by Ronald Jenkees
Etta James’ At Last
Subtly (and sometimes nerdy) Alternatives
“Concerning Hobbits”
The Princess Bride’s “Storybook Love”
The Turret Opera from Portal 2
“The Shape of Things to Come” from Battlestar Galactica
Sigur Rós’ “Hoppípolla”
“Romantic Flight” from the movie How to Train Your Dragon
“Neville’s Waltz” from Harry Potter and The Goblet of Fire
The Skyrim theme
The theme from Braveheart
Triumphal March from Aida
Game of Thrones theme
Goth and Metal
Amhran by Leaves’ Eyes — an operatic metal band from Norway
Apocalyptica’s version of “Nothing Else Matters”
Suite Gothique by Leon Boellmann
Anything from Gothic Wedding Collection by Vitamin String Quartet
Silly
The theme from James Bond
The theme from the Pink Panther
The theme from Mission impossible
“A Cadence to Arms” by Dropkick Murphy
The Jurassic Park theme
The Throne Room/End Title song from Star Wars
The Muppets’ Somebody’s Getting Married/He’ll Make Me Happy
Europe’s “The Final Countdown”
Pop and Rock
Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Colbie Caillat’s “I Do”
Adele’s “One and only”
The Beatles’ “In My Life”
Pearl Jam’s “Just Breathe”
Cat Power’s version of “Sea of Love”
Tesla’s Love Song
Indie
Thirteen by Elliot Smith
Phone Call by Jon Brion from Eternal Sunshine
Jeff Buckley’s Hallelujah
We Are Gonna Be Friends by the White Stripes
About Megan Finley
Megan Finley is the Associate Publisher for the Offbeat Empire. When she’s not slaving away for the Empire, she’s sharing her dork side on her own blog and on Twitter @meganfinley.
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Jeff Buckley’s “Hallelujah” is one of my favorite songs of all music and a great alternative for those who find equal enjoyment inits words, melody and beauty.
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7 BS Facts About Brides Everyone Thinks Are True
I came across this article about Wedding Brides yesterday and found it fascinating. I do not know if I agree with all that is written by I thought it would be interesting conversation. I have copied the bulk of the text below with some commments. i have also added links to content that is referred to by the original author.
7 BS Facts About Brides Everyone Thinks Are True
“I’ve been in the wedding business a while…over 12 years, in fact…and in the process I’ve crossed paths with more than a few brides. There are a few misconceptions about them that I simply must expose. *deep breath*
WARNING: Prepare yourself for a healthy dose of sarcasm. All those lacking a sense of humor, turn back now.
1. Brides don’t know anything about planning a wedding.
Of course, they do! They know what their Knottie friends have told them. They know what the media says about wedding rip offs. They know exactly what to expect from watching wedding reality TV.
Shame on you for thinking they don’t know anything! For shame.
2. Every bride wants to be a princess in a fairytale on her wedding day.
Speaking as a tomboy who absolutely refused to wear a dress until the age of 10, and who only grew her hair long because she got tired of the question, “Are you a boy or a girl?” I can assure you that all brides do NOT want to be a princess.
In fact, I bet if we took a survey at least 75% of brides get nauseous at the thought of a Cinderella ball gown and a tiara. You might remember that the next time you want to sprinkle fairy dust all over her day.
3. The bride has been imagining her wedding since she was a little girl.
Maybe I’m handing in all my chick cards here, but that was definitely NOT the case for me. Sure, I played house and restaurant and doctor (woah! don’t go there) like other little girls, but playing at my dream wedding was never part of the picture.
When little girls grow up and get engaged, they are just as likely to be shell shocked at the mere thought of having to plan a wedding as they are to be sticker shocked by the price tag attached to their fantasy.
4. All brides are female.
This is definitely not true. The groom can also be, “the bride,” and this isn’t exclusive to same sex weddings, either.
You know who I’m talking about. He emails you 15 times a day about the most minute details of the wedding, shows up with his own wedding planning binder, and on the wedding day, he wears makeup.
Be sensitive to the fact that the bride you’re working with might not be who you think.
5. Brides are obsessed with all the little details and hundreds of choices involved in planning the wedding.
While it may be true that many brides adore the browsing, shopping and dreaming that comes with planning a wedding, they are just as overwhelmed and stalled by CHOICE as the rest of us humans. When it’s too difficult to decide, they opt not to decide.
How many brides have exclaimed to me six months before the wedding, “Why can’t I just show up?”
Brides love the idea of choice, but give them too many pretty things to choose between, and they will choose nothing.
6. Brides want their wedding to be unique and different.
Ask a bride what her dream wedding will be like and 9 times out of 10 she’ll say, “Simple, elegant and unique. Something that’s really US.”
And yet…well, you’ve been to a wedding or two. They wear a white dress (strapless, no doubt!), walk down an aisle, share a first dance to a (corny, predictable) love song and dab cute dollops of icing on the groom’s nose. When they want to do something “different” they imitate last year’s trend-setting weddings on Style Me Pretty.
Yep, they’re original, all right.
Every bride wants to FEEL unique and special on her wedding day, but her choices are more likely to follow the herd.
7. All brides care about is price.
The first thing she asks, whether in an email or on the phone, “How much do you cost?”
Ah, ha! With so many more important factors to consider, that’s what she asks. Therefore all she must care about is price.
Not so, weedhopper. Not so.
In surveys conducted by the Wedding Report, when asked if price was the deciding factor when hiring a wedding vendor, 80% of brides said NO.
Shock and dismay! If price isn’t the most important, what is?
She wants to make sure she’s getting quality first. Then price becomes a factor.”
Interesting stuff yes?
Numbers six and seven are the two that stand-out to me to offer perspective.
6. Brides want their wedding to be unique and different.
I think most Brides do want their wedding to be unique and different and are realistic enough to recognize that maybe just a few select items may be unique. Brides today are very savvy, at least min sour. You know more information about Weddings than brides have ever due to your time on the internet and forums. Of course,not all the information you get is true but it is still part of the knowledge base you accumulate to make your decisions on when, who, what and where. My experience is that Brides that do not know a lot about Weddings, ask professionals like myself to become more informed. I do my best to offer them honest and real advise and they appreciate the insights and experience I can share with them.
I am enough of a realist to know that what I do as a Rhode Island Wedding DJ is very similar to what many of the best Wedding DJs int eh area do as well. What I can offer that is unique is a guarantee and my experienced, fu and passionate personality. I also created The StoryBook for those who want to make their Wedding actually unique and personal.
However, I totally agree that most of my Brides want a simple and elegant Wedding that has their style and personality all over it. It should be that way, it’s your Wedding! I think too many Wedding vendors try to force themselves into the center of your Wedding as if they are the main attraction of the day. It infuriates me!
7. All brides care about is price.
This is only half true and half BS. I have worked with enough of you to know that you want a fair price, excellent quality and to make sure your voice is of the highest importance. In short, you want value. I have not yet met a Bride that did not want me and all the other Wedding vendors to get paid what we are worth, as long as they can afford it. I think there is a mjor difference between being cheap and being smart. I am no different than of you; I don’t not want overpay for anything, but genuinely want to make sure those who are talented, work hard and offer excellent service get what they deserve.
I find excellent service, professionalism and creativity seem to be what most Brides want, then price becomes the factor. I think you ask about price first because you don’t know where else to begin our conversation. And let’s be honest, who does not care abut price besides the Jimmy Fallon TV commercials! Please let me know if I a wrong on this one.
Which of the myths about Brides do you think is most accurate and most erroneous?